Wedding, 40 hour train, Shanghai

A wedding, a cross-country train trip and one of the largest cities in the world--oh my! After our dancing and revelry in the yurt, the true preparations began. We had two days until the wedding and lots to learn about a traditional Chinese ceremony. We'll share some pointers with you: General guidelines : Similar to weddings in the US, these are big events with intricate etiquette and customs. Colors : The bride and groom wear red, guests avoid red. Similar to the color white in western weddings. Black and white are reserved for funerals, so also a color to be avoided. Gifts : Our family, mainly PJ and Wendy:) has learned the hard way about the gift etiquette. Clocks are the biggest "no no," they signify that you will have something to do with the recipient's death. Sharp objects, like knives, signify severing a friendship. And generally things in groups of four are thought to be bad luck. The word four in Mandarin, (四 Sì) sounds like the word ...